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Loving ourselves unconditionally, we no longer see our flaws as something detractive, rather, they are a confirmation that this is who we are. We speak our truth. We stand up for ourselves, not worrying about the consequences. Utter surrender to what is and shall be. In meditation we ask ourselves, can we trust that all will be provided for, in our highest and greatest good? If your answer is anything other than a resounding YES!, then look deeper to recognize the blocks and fences of resistance to letting go and trusting yourself. Your Higher Self is watching over you and orchestrating your reality in accordance with your Divine plan and free will.

We love others to the point that if the other person no longer wants to be with us, we let them go. It could mean the contract is fulfilled. We would never consider holding them “hostage” from a neediness in ourselves. We love others who become angry with us, because we understand they are growing spiritually. We appreciate everything and expect nothing from others, in terms of “what’s in it for me”. We give freely and we manifest quickly and easily. There is a Divine flow in our life, and it feels good. We are grateful for everyone and every experience in our lives, past, present and future, for truly it is in the present moment we exist. We bless people at every opportunity through our words, thoughts and actions.

Loving ourselves unconditionally, we are conscious of other’s feelings. We are cognizant of our behavior and hesitate to cause discomfort in someone else, unless there is purpose to ignite the spark of change. We feel the other person’s pain as our pain, their joy as our joy. We want the best for everyone, because when they are successful, happy, and prosperous, they are a reflection of us, and we too are successful, joyful and flowing in abundance. Self Love could express itself as what we give up in terms of attachment. Are we willing to take the leap of faith, change our lives and circumstances, and watch how it all is created? In my book, Enclosure: A Spiritual Autobiography, I share my stories of changing my environment, my relationships, my careers, and my reality from skeptic to awareness, to convey my spiritual path of letting go, taking action, and the creative adventure called life.

Mastering Self Love is recognizing its been here all along. The journey we’ve walked in the human experience is to bring us to the realization that we are the Divine expressed. God/Creator Source does not stop loving you because of your mistakes and wayward journey off the path. No sheep is lost, its just waiting to be found by the shepherd within. It takes inner work to come to this center of being-ness. Its not easy and yet the rewards are exponential in terms of the peace and harmony one feels on the other side of strife and struggle. All the money in the world cannot provide the freedom from the lessons we signed up for. The lessons are meant to be experienced, fully and completely. When I remember all the experiences in my six decades on Earth, I am grateful for all of them and all the people, situations, and feelings, I learned from, to know who I am today.

I encourage you to become very clear about who you are, what you are creating, and trust yourself. Seek assistance from those who have walked the path ahead of you. Meditate and find the answers within you, because that is where the Divine You is residing.

Blessings and love,

Barbara Becker

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